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 Here you have waited for the long-awaited moment, and your daughter was born. Of course, you hope that you will cope with all future difficulties and be able to raise a real princess from Cinderella. However, any parent understands that problems cannot be avoided here. Let's make a small list of problems (the most common ones) that arise when raising your "beauties":
1. Tears and frequent mood swings. This is especially evident in the transitional age of the child, when the mood changes within a minute and any word can cause hysteria in the girl. Often this is just a temporary stage associated with increased thyroid function and hormonal changes. Parents need to become a friend of their daughter and help as much as possible to adapt in this difficult period.
However, you should not follow the lead of your daughter and justify her behavior as a transitional age, if tears and tantrums are a method of "getting your way." In such cases, it is better to immediately suppress such behavior and establish the necessary framework for the behavior.
2. Clothing. It is because of her that, almost from kindergarten, disagreements with the child begin to appear, the girl may categorically refuse to put on things bought by her parents. There is nothing bad in this situation, because your baby is a future woman who strives to be beautiful and feminine, so try to give her freedom of choice. Believe me, if you offer her a red one instead of a white blouse (which she categorically does not want to wear), and at the same time tell her how beautiful she is in it, then 95% of 100% that she will wear it.
Everything will be a little more complicated when your beauty grows up, of course, do not prejudice her in the opportunity to be beautiful and choose the clothes herself, but try to be a friend for her and, imperceptibly for her, direct her choice in the right direction, while always emphasizing that a woman should be not only beautiful, but also smart, purposeful and feminine.
3. Too much attention to your appearance. Parents should be aware that the girl spends a lot of time in front of the mirror. Moreover, it is close people who should teach her to take care of herself, explain that acne in adolescence is normal, and in no case say that she is not beautiful, stupid, or, on the contrary, constantly focus on her beauty. Do not go to extremes with cosmetics: do not teach your child to make-up from an early age, but in adolescence buy her lip gloss or mascara yourself, believe me - she will appreciate it!
4. Meetings with friends and night discos. Conflicts on this basis are the most difficult for parents, since your daughter considers herself an adult, but you don't think so. For parents, it is necessary to try to explain to the child that they have a much greater life experience, to which one must not only listen, but also trust. Try to find out as much as possible about your daughter's friends, invite them to your home, make friends with them too. But in matters requiring harshness, do not be afraid to insist on your own, because you first of all care about her - about your beloved daughter!
Anna Sergeyevna
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